In NJ Family Law matters, who gets to choose the preschool when parents are separated or divorced is often an issue. Your child is able to enroll for preschool virtually anywhere. Many parents argue over the choice of which preschool and its location. Additionally, the cost of preschool can be an issue, especially when one parent has a much higher income than the other. You might want your child to attend a religious preschool and the other parent does not agree. Your vision of what is best for your child might be contrary to that of the other parent.